And trust me, the chemistry that can get sparked and the intelligent banter that can take place in a chat window is phenomenal.Comments, pictures and of course reading up views of common friends comes in handy to know what you might be getting into before you go on a date!No exploration is private and everyone in the community has a judgment and an opinion about it. Yes, they may be sitting across a coffee table and telling you so with almost puppy dog eyes, but no one is really single in the lesbian scene.So, develop a thick skin and learn to keep explorations, dates, introspection of your romance and love life off your Facebook updates/wallposts! There is some undercurrent always going on— friends with benefits, one night stands, exes with physical strings attached.But know that any social networking move will be dissected and bisected by the L-World!
SCISSR is designed by queer womxn for queer womxn to create a community for lesbians, bisexuals, nonbinary folks, and other queer womxn desiring to increase their connections with other amazing queer individuals who are wanting romance, friendship, conversation, and even networking. We utilize a Facebook sign-in process that is 100% safe and private to keep out guys, trolls, and fake user profiles.
Names of women who may be interested will be dropped and you will be the topic of much conversation.
You will be asked to dance, advised to loosen up and politely told to get onto the whirligig of sex, lust and smoke!
Read the undercurrents— if she’s on BBM constantly; if she’s getting picked up and dropped off by her ‘best friend’, or if she is flirty on chat, but isn’t in person and refuses to acknowledge your presence beyond casual pleasantries… Rule No 4: Embrace the ex-factor The best advice I got from my first lesbian friend who sat me down the night I came out to her was, “The lesbian world is very incestuous. I’ve seen exes hang out with their ex-girlfriends and their current partners without even a mere raising of the eyebrow from friends.
So the first thing you have to learn is to be friends with your exes and your flings! In fact, some of them have gone out of their way to play cupid for their ex-girlfriend!
The rhyme for dating success in the lesbian community could well be —Trust personal experience— if her ex-girlfriend doesn’t like you—you ain’t gonna score brownie points!