What are your views on arguing and why do you automatically look at it as a negativity that is out to ruin your relationship?
If arguments exist because of the differences you and your partner share, then perhaps you first need to acknowledge whether you and your partner accept and respect each other for who you are as individual people.
When you're in love, things happen at their own pace. Immature couples, however, don't have those feelings, those instincts and those effortless moments.
They make up rules and guidelines and assume time is the only thing that makes or breaks their relationship.
They already know the answers, and they don't need reassurance from their partners.
The love between the two of them isn't about making both of them whole again, but more individual.
Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. How can you tell if your relationship is in it for the long haul or the two-month plummet everyone predicted behind your love-obsessed back? Drama is for people who don't know how to have a relationship — who live by idealistic, preconceived notions that love must be wild and obsessive. It's something that happens naturally; it doesn't need to be fought for day in and day out. A mature relationship lives by this peace of mind; immature ones drown in it. It burns dimly when you're together, but you wave it off with sex and constant chatter. The love between the two mature people fills every crack in the fiber of their being they didn't know they had.
Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. First, it should be easy, from the beginning to end. When you love someone, and he or she loves you, and there's no doubt to his or her feelings and no doubt to yours, that's peace of mind. Immature relationships are formed by two incomplete people. They are two people looking for something that can't be found in another person.
No couple is 100% alike, nor would anyone really want to have a partner who is exactly like them.You can't have a healthy relationship with two unhealthy people.When you're trying to use someone to complete you, you're creating an incomplete relationship.We all have a past, and in many cases, one we're not proud of.We can't help what happened to people before we knew them. Immature couples, however, refuse to see beyond the past.Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. They dominate each other, force themselves together and make one flawed mesh of a human. They are two individual people looking to make two better people.